We tend to perceive endings as a kind of death. We dread them, we try to prevent them, and we grieve them, experiencing feelings of scarcity and loss. We think thatâs OK, to an extent. We can mourn our losses, but itâs also important to see endings as a means to impending freshness.
We tend to get so caught up in endings that we forget to focus on the present moment. We cling to what has been (the past) and fear the unknown, post-ending (the future). It can be the ending of a job, a friendship, an experience, or of course, a love or relationship. Being OK withâand even excited about the prospect ofâan ending is allowing ourselves to be present.
When it comes to the end of a relationship, You need to stop âseeing the goodâ in suckas and start seeing the shit they show you. Their energy will never change, but yours can. We canât think of a better amen moment when thatâs the kind of ending weâre fixed upon.
The most important tip to take away from this post is to make sure you plan for whatâs next, rather than thinking about what couldâve been: âYour journey is difficult because youâre called to do dope shit, and not everyone will be allowed on the Muthafuckinâ ride. Donât trip; the universe has a way of gifting you something in return when you lose something close to you. Thatâs what moving forward is all about.â Itâs about momentum. No need to swing back when everything in our life is ahead of us.
Much of the time we donât realize that something isnât serving us. Maybe it looks great on paper. Maybe itâs the source of our livelihood, whether we are truly happy in it or not. In this way, we can keep ourselves stuck in energetic toxicity. When you focus on your path, youâll gain more than you ever fuckinâ lost.
2021 is the year we match this kind of intensity. Sometimes we donât choose when the eject button is hit, but that doesnât make it a bad thing. Embrace the free fall, and get ready for new growth. All we can do is bloom.
2021 just started, your year has not been ruined. RESET AND RECHARGE!