Will It Fit? Straddling Between Standard and Plus-Size

I recently found myself browsing the promotions tab of my Gmail inbox and decided to click on one from a store that I don’t normally shop at that was having a sale. I was then shocked to discover that their “regular” sizing only went up to a 10, and “plus” sizing starts at a 12. I usually wear somewhere between a size 8 and a size 12. Regular and plus-size ranges often fit differently, so I was faced with a dilemma: if I were to order from this store, which size range would I order from?

It got me thinking about the struggle I sometimes encounter in trying to find the right size at certain stores. At stores like Forever 21, for example, if a large doesn’t fit me, it’s almost impossible to find a size XL or pants in any sort of inclusive sizes in store. And then if I go to the plus section, I can’t find a size that fits there either. Their plus range starts at a 0X, but those are very hard to come by in store as well.

Unfortunately, stores like these aren’t the only ones where mid- and plus-sized women might struggle. Lululemon was exposed for keeping their small selection of the largest sizes they carry, 10s and 12s, in a separate and messy area in the back of the store and rarely restocking them, as Business Insider reported. High-end brands and celebrity or influencer clothing lines often only go up to a size large and an 8 or 10, but 68 percent of American women wear a size 14 or above, as per Racked.

As brands become more and more inclusive (as they should), they tend to ignore a group of millions of consumers that would be considered “mid-size” or “in-betweeners.” On websites and in advertising, we often see models on the smaller end of the spectrum for both standard and plus/curve size ranges. The lack of mid-size women wearing a 10, 12 or 14 is apparent. And if they are there, they’re considered plus-size.

Ashley Graham, widely regarded as one of the world’s most famous “plus-size” models, is a size 16. The fashion industry is built to divide women into only two size categories: sample and plus, and when a model is a size 8 or above, they’re automatically looped into the plus-size category. Celebrities like Amy Schumer and Mindy Kaling have spoken out about how they are often referred to as plus-size actresses, but Schumer has said she is a size 6 to 8, and Kaling a size 8.


When this happens, brands not only forget to include options and representation for women who fall in the middle, but set standards that could be harmful to young girls’ body image. Every body type is beautiful, and I’m part of the group that believes brands can provide inclusive size ranges without separating women into categories. As Time reported, Melissa McCarthy said, “Women come in all sizes. Seventy percent of women in the United States are a size 14 or above, and that’s technically ‘plus-size,’ so you’re taking your biggest category of people and telling them, ‘You’re not really worthy.’”

Women come in all sizes. Seventy percent of women in the United States are a size 14 or above, and that’s technically ‘plus-size,’ so you’re taking your biggest category of people and telling them, ‘You’re not really worthy.’

One of the major reasons that mid-size women often have trouble finding clothes that fit is the limitations in patterns that clothing pieces are made from. Because of cost restrictions, designers often have a sample size pattern (a 2 or 4) as well as a plus-size pattern (a 14 or 16 — if that’s something they offer) that they make tweaks to for the rest of the size range. When a size 2 pattern is being tweaked for up to a size 12 or 14, distortions occur and the clothes don’t actually fit the real women who wear these sizes. This pattern issue is also the reason that a size 14 in a regular size range tends to fit differently and usually smaller than a size 14 in a plus-size range. 

As everyone has probably experienced, sizing in women’s fashion is extremely inconsistent across the board. We already live in a world where we have to deal with the dread of standing in a dressing room staring in the mirror at yourself sweating, trying on clothing item after clothing item that doesn’t fit. Is it too much to ask that retailers just provide us with inclusive, standard sizing and representation without putting us in meaningless categories?


Thankfully (and many years too late), these conversations are now being had and things are beginning to change. There has been a recent rise in mid-size fashion bloggers, looking to fill the gap in influencers who have body types that everyone, regardless of what size they wear, can relate to and get inspiration from. YouTubers and Instagram influencers such as P A S S I O N J O N E S Z, STEPHANIE PEREIRA, Carrie Dayton, Lucy Wood and 𝑫𝑨𝑵𝑰 𝑫𝑴𝑪 who both have said in their videos that they typically wear a size 12 or 14, use their platforms to discuss their struggles in finding clothing to fit their self-proclaimed mid-size bodies and sometimes straddling the line between regular and plus sizes. If you’re interested in checking out their Youtube videos, start with Lucy Wood | MIDSIZE GIRLS WHO’LL CHANGE YOUR LIFE.


Is it too much to ask that retailers just provide us with inclusive, standard sizing and representation without putting us in meaningless categories?

Some brands are beginning to recognize their lack of inclusivity and are making changes to their branding, advertising, and websites. Aerie, for example, has made headlines for banning the alteration of their advertising photos and vowing to be more inclusive in both sizing and representation, as Time reported. Its parent company, American Eagle, has a feature on their website where you can see the same jeans on models who wear sizes 00, 6, 12, and 22. 

As women in the United States, trying to find clothes that fit us can be extremely hard. On any given day, I can be a size 8 in one store and a size 14 in another. I didn’t even know that there was an entire community of women out there who are also facing this “mid-size” or “in-betweener” struggle, until I found the influencers who are talking about it openly — and I hope that anyone facing the same dilemma can relate as well. We are all beautiful, and we all deserve clothes (and lots of them) that fit!


The Milkmaid Trend We’re All Currently Obsessed With

Get your milk fix without taking the dairy hit with our edit of the essential puff sleeves, corset fronts, and maid inspired styles to be found at SHEIN.

It has come to our attention, particularly having watched our umpteenth hour of Love Island, that every woman around has started dressing like a milkmaid. Without so much as a cow, sheep or goat in the vicinity, you’d be forgiven for wondering why the farmyard uniform was so rife but when the look consists of prairie floral prints, flattering square necklines, and brilliantly exaggerated puff sleeves, the real question is: why haven’t we been dressing like a milkmaid for longer?

Whilst many of us have given up or reduced our daily intake of late, we won’t be holding back when it comes to indulging in some calcium-rich summer clobber. Thanks to brands like SHEIN, just because your morning coffee is farmyard-free, doesn’t mean your wardrobe has to be. They have plenty of affordable options so you can get the look without having to step foot near the stables. Ask for the trend skimmed by simply adding a few small bows and ruffles to your everyday look, or opt for the full-fat option with ultra-feminine puff sleeve playsuits, hook front dresses and corset tops that look fresh from the field. Milk the look further with true-to-the-trend shades of cream or break from tradition with some bold color alternatives – think red, lilac, and neon green that adds a modern twist.  

So whether you want to dip in with a few details or take the look top to toe, scroll on from our top milkmaid inspired styles from the SHEIN collection now. But you’d better moo-ve it, we can guarantee these picks won’t be around for long. 



The Denim Trends We’re Indulging In This Summer

While jeans are a year-round staple, the warmer months of summer often call for fresh color palettes and novel silhouettes. Of course there will always be the classics – like high-waisted straight leg jeans and cropped denim – but if you’re wanting to add a new pair to the line up, there are new denim trends to get excited about too. From wide leg cuts to dad jeans and everything in between, shop our picks below!

Diva Boutique Denim

It is always good to spruce up your closet, so why not add a cute denim to your wardrobe! DivaBoutique offers exclusive, sexy, unique clothing for everyday use and special occasions including celebrity inspired styles, shoes and more. DivaBoutique is based in Miami, Florida and it is the #1 go-to store for sexy trendy wear. Send us your denim lookbook, we are always feeling inspire for something fresh and hot.


This Date Night Outfit Is Perfect For Dinners At Home

It’s the start of a new month, so we invite you to part ways with your everyday sweats and tie-dye hoodies. Instead, try a timeless, romantic outfit combo like a wrap skirt and bodysuit for your next at-home date night or family dinner. Dress it down with a pair of flip-flops or up with strappy-heeled sandals – it’s nearly impossible to go wrong. Don’t forget to stack a few bobby pins on the side of your hair to complete the look.

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