Whether you watch The Kardashians or youâre one of her 261 million IG followers, you know Kendall Jenner is no stranger to the spotlight but also to the wellness scene. IV therapy, cold plunges, meditation sound bowls, and journaling are a few wellness practices she religiously stands by. If that doesnât convince you of her self-proclaimed health obsession, her state-of-the-art room dedicated to all thing’s wellness will. Complete with a hyperbaric chamber, red light therapy bed, and oxygen therapy machine, itâs every wellness girlâs dream (major envy). Gadgets and gizmos aside, Kendall has open dialogues with the media and on social media about her mental health and struggles with anxiety.
Thanks to her recent interview with Jay Shetty on his podcast, On Purpose with Jay Shetty, we got the 411 on her self-work and steadfast wellness rituals. Read on for how she stays in tune with her highest self. Spoiler alert: They are practices you will not find on Hulu or Instagram, and we can all benefit from them. Â
Foster your higher goddess
In Kendallâs work with her therapist, she focuses on living in her higher goddess, AKA her higher self. What does that look like? Words of affirmation, reassuring yourself of who you are, and recognizing everything else is just noise. âSometimes it feels weird to say good things about yourself, but Iâve also learned a lot about talking to myself and a lot about looking in the mirror and being like, âYouâre great. Youâre gorgeous. Youâre amazing. Youâre loyal. Youâre positive.’âÂ
Admittedly, Kendall falls victim to false narratives. Like us all, she has moments she struggles to stay true to who she is and her purpose. âIf your happiness depends on the actions of others, youâre at [the] mercy of things that you canât control,â she stated. Kendall emphasized holding your happiness and not letting anyone else affect it. If you know yourself and the people important in your life know your true self, nothing else should matter. When Shetty asked Kendall, âWhatâs something you used to value but you donât value anymore?â Her answer? Validation.Â
Set aside alone time
Itâs no secret that Kendall is surrounded by a large family and famous friends (hey, Hailey Bieber) in addition to her entourage. But she told Shetty that since she was a kid, the Scorpio in her enjoyed being by herself. âI went through a phase where I felt like I had to be around people,â shared Kendall. âI think I live a very social life, and my job is very social, so I was kind of conditioned to want to be around people a lot. And then, as the pandemic came around, youâre not around as many people anymore. Now Iâm just re-enjoying being by myself, which is cool.â
At the end of the day, Kendall craves a simple routine. Her perfect day consists of riding her horses, taking a cold plunge, laying out, and journaling. Taking a cue from Kendall, give yourself space and step away when needed. Additionally, be comfortable in your own company. Sometimes the best remedy for a bad day is journaling (yes, it bears repeating), taking a solo walk outside, meditating, or picking up a new hobby.
Set boundaries at workÂ
Letâs face it: We all experience burnout, celeb or not. Kendall expressed there was a long period she was overworked, felt overwhelmed, and said âyesâ to every opportunityâto the point where she was unhappy (anyone else relates?). Eventually, she learned to prioritize herself. She realized her well-being was necessary to show up better in her personal and professional life. So, she took a step back in her career to reconnect with her higher self: âI got to that point, and I just knew I had to do itâŠâ Kendall explained. âIt was just such an unbelievable sensation that I had where I knew that if I do this, Iâm going to be better for everyone. And Iâm going to be better for myself, which means Iâm going to be better for the people around me.â
Learn to recognize the signs of burnout (think: fatigue, feeling apathetic with your work, changes to your sleep patterns). Then, enforce work-life boundaries to care for your mental health and restore a healthy balance. Maybe that means being upfront and communicating with your boss or taking time off. Or, itâs just saying ânoâ to taking on more projects or a meeting invite scheduled during your lunch break. Ultimately, your mental and physical health should be your number one priority (I know thatâs sometimes easier said than done).
Stay grounded in your relationshipsÂ
When it comes to her family and friends, Kendall told Shetty that honesty and communication are her core values in maintaining healthy relationships. âI find it important to not feel like youâre on top of each other when you have your family around or your friends around,â she said. âItâs OK to sometimes, even if youâre at a family dinner, run to the bathroom and just being like, âLet me just take a couple of breaths because this is getting overwhelming.’â
Kendall shared that sheâs prone to anxiety and can take things too seriously. When she feels inundated with family circumstances or stress, she recognizes her feelings: âIâm allowed to feel this way; itâs valid. Iâm just going to take a deep breath, and Iâm not going to react, and then Iâm going to go back out there, and Iâm going to be fine.â Try being in Kendallâs shoes (wouldnât that be fun?) and pause whenever you feel overwhelmed. Give yourself a safe space to express your feelings through journaling, speaking to a mental health professional, or practicing deep breathing.
Nurture your inner child
After coming across a viral TikTok trend encouraging viewers to stop negative self-talk by picturing their younger selves, Kendallâs therapist suggested she put a spin on it and find a photo of herself as a child to put on her bathroom mirror. Take a glance at her Instagram, and youâll see the Polaroid of young Kendall. It serves as a daily reminder that anything negative that she says about herself, sheâs saying to that beaming, hair bow-wearing younger version of herself. âIf Iâm ever looking in the mirror and being negative toward myself, I always look right over to her, and Iâm like, âSheâs dope, and I love her,’â Kendall laughed.
Bottom line: Practice self-love and find tactics that work for you. If youâre not sure where to start, try exercising mindfulness, putting yourself and your needs first, or simply making yourself a healthy meal. Regardless of your method, keep being kind to yourself, just as you would your 5-year-old self or BFF.